Let’s journal!
All those things that have been overwhleming you.
Let’s write them all down.
I mean, the big things:
the money worries
the fear of abandonment
the regrets
The little things:
forgetting something at the grocery store
laundry
that voicemail you still haven’t listened to
Write em all down.
Just a few words, not the whole story. Make a list.
Then, make a list next to that list on a scale of 1-5 how crucial that thing is to your general joy.
For example, laundry is a never-ending task, but having clean laundry makes me pretty happy. That’s a 5 for me.
The fear of abandonment adds nothing to my general joy. That’s a 1.
Everything that rates below a 3, get rid of it.
Delete it from your life.
Outsource it.
The stuff you can’t get rid of (laundry, bills, etc), find a way to turn it into a source of joy.
(The Tonglen meditation we’ve been working on on other days is effective for this.)
You can burn this list, or save it to review a few months from now.
Notice when the overwhelm comes, what happens right before then.
Catch it and convert to joy before you let it take hold.